~masmaira soul garden~

assalamualaikum w.t.b
wanted to share some info from Forum Perdana "Remaja Mencari Dunia?"
i attend it on 28 February 2008, 8.00pm - 11.30 pm located in main hall MMU melaka...
my beloved expensive university..

first i did not really sure i wanted to attend it, but normally i always attend this event,
erm... when i first read the title i really thought that this forum will discuss about how teenagers only focus on real world n never bother about spiritual or we can say never bother about Allah n Islam, but let's check it out what is this forum is trully about. Sorry i used to start my blog in english but today forum is in bahasa melayu... once i talk about the forum i'll change my language ok... first an introduction about the speaker they invited Ustaz Zahazan Mohamad from UIA, Dr Azizan Ahmad from UKM, and the moderator is a lecturer from MMU that is Ustaz Najib.. Ustaz Najib is the speaker for Usrah Umum 3, that held before valentines day, one day i will upload the intipaty of that usrah... next time ok, saya elobrate ikut ayat saya..cuma isi2 dari speaker laa yea..

kita semua tahu siapa yg dimaksudkan dgn remaja.. school kid sampai laa unversity student then lebey kurang sampai 29 kot sebab 30 tu cam dah matured enough to take a roll as adult.remaja nie tend to have interest dgn jantina yg lagi satu..ini pasti sebab it is fitrah. ustaz kata remaja nie ibarat pucuk, hujung yg baru tumbuh yg tak jelas mana arah tujuan hidup dia... klu pucuk pokok cari matahari..kita manusia cari apa? kita g belajar utk siapa? kita berkerja utk apa? glamour ka? mak suh ka? sebab duit ka?

remaja perlu disedarkan dari sekarang tak kira peringkat mana umur dia...sebab dia penentu masa depan. "Jika ingin melihat generasi masa depan kamu..lihatlah wanita pada hari ini kerana mereka bakal melahirkan generasi depan... Jika ingin melihat keadaan negara kamu dimasa hadapan lihatlah org muda kamu pada hari ini kerana mereka lah bakal pemimpin"
kita leh lihat sendrik contoh golongan pemuda yg sanggup mempertahankan iman mereka kerana Allah s.w.t dalam sejarah iaitu Ashabul Khafi, Allah akan sentiasa menguji kita semua dan melihat siapak yang lebih baik amalannya..

there are few challenge yg need to be faced by this youth ada dua factor paling besar sekali:

1. Dalaman

• nafsu- yg sentiasa akan membuak2.. dan memberangsangkan seseorang remaja, remaja + nafsu = ghairah, tetapi ghairah ada yg +ve dan -ve, jadi tugas kita ialah menyalurkan ghairah _ve kepada ghariah +ve, seperti ghairah utk beribadat, bersedakah dan buat good deeds yg lainnyea
  
• syaitan - yg takkan pernah sesaat pun lupa utk menyesatkan umat islam
• menyimpan rasa2 kejahatan -sukar utk remaja membuang perkara2 yg tidak elok kerana perkara2 itu menyeronokkan.

• pengaruh dari budaya barat.. such as movies, the social life such as hugging, kissing and that sort of things. in this world there is only two budaya.. one is islamic n the other is no-islamic
• remaja akan ikut sahaja apa yg dia rasa or nampak macam seronok.
  
• media massa sentiasa ada, such as tv, internet, magazine and etc Not all media massa are bad there are good website that give u knowledge but there is also place that lead people make bad things
• pengaruh rakan sebaya..besar impaknyea..kawan suppose kena laa jadi cermin yg jujur pada kawannyea yg lagi satu tu..bukan just puji walaupun its not true.. di akhir zaman people tend to trust their friends more then they do with their parents.